BEHAVIOUR

"Always be good with the good but Never be bad with the bad because you can’t wash mud with mud" Its reality if u can understand."

"Behavior" Is A Mirror In Which Everyone, Displays His Own Image Always Try To Build Your Respectable Image Because Reflection Can’t Be Changed By Changing The Mirror."

 

Don’t bully yourself!

Don’t hold yourself to standards that you wouldn’t expect others to meet. It’s great to want to do well, but expecting yourself to be better than the best and then punishing yourself when you fail is a vicious cycle. Using expressions like “I should have” is just a way of punishing yourself after the fact. Stop it. Live in the present and move forward. Don’t drag the past along for the ride; it gets heavy. Do you remember the children’s story of the little train that could? That’s how you need to live your life. Keep saying to yourself, “I know I can ... I know I can ... I can ... I can!” Tell your subconscious you’ve already done it. Be kind to yourself and remember you can do this!

Be kind to yourself.

People often feel perfectly comfortable treating themselves in ways they wouldn’t consider treating others. Do you call yourself names like fat, ugly and loser? Would you use those terms to describe a friend? Remind yourself that you deserve to be treated well. Do something nice for yourself sometimes, either in thought (give yourself a compliment) or action (treat yourself to a massage).

Encourage yourself.

Instead of focusing on the negative, replace your criticism with encouragement. Give constructive suggestions instead of being critical. (“Maybe if I try to do ____ next time, it would be even better,” instead of “I didn’t do that right.”) Compliment yourself and those around you on what you’ve achieved. (“Well, we may not have done it all, but we did a pretty great job with what we did.”) Giving praise will also encourage others to praise you, and this builds up your confidence to continue on the path.

Avoid absolutes and exaggerations.

Correct your internal voice when it exaggerates, especially when it exaggerates the negative: “I always eat too much” or “I’ll never lose weight.” These are absolutes, meaning they’re always 100 percent true, but there are very few absolutes in life. If you exaggerate or use an absolute, rephrase what you say. For example, “I always eat too much” can be changed to, “In the past, I’ve often eaten too much. Now, I’m getting better at how much I eat.” Then feel good about taking control of your thoughts.

CARING

“If you shift your focus from yourself to others, extend your concern to others, and cultivate the thought of caring for the well being of others, then this will have the immediate effect of opening up your life and helping you to reach out.”

“Many of us follow the commandment 'Love One Another.' When it relates to caregiving, we must love one another with boundaries. We must acknowledge that we are included in the 'Love One Another.” 

RESPONSIBILITY

"There is only one person responsible for the quality of the life you live. That person is you.  Taking one hundred percent responsibility means you acknowledge that you create everything that happens to you. It means you understand that you are the cause of all your experience. If you want to be really successful then you will have to give up blaming and complaining and take total responsibility for your life—that means all your results"

"Responsibility is the possibility of opportunities culminating in inevitable fulfillment"   

FRIENDSHIP.......

"I value the friend who for me finds time on his calendar, 
but I cherish the friend who for me does not consult his calendar"

"Growing apart doesn’t change the fact that for a long time we grew side by side;
 our roots will always be tangled. I’m glad for that"

"A Friend never asks of a Hug, just takes it

Never asks “Do you miss me?”, Says “I miss you”

Never asks “Can you help me?”, says “Do it for me”

Never says “I can’t live without you”, says “I live for you”

Never says “Sorry, Please, Thank You”, instead says “Anytime for you”

To all those great friends out there,"

REAL LOVE

Do you know that i love you?
I probably already told you, but i am going to keep saying it. there is no lie in these words,not one bit, your smile keeps me alive, is one more reason to keep fighting, i would give you my soul for comfort, even if it leaves me dark  and cold & & when i hold you close, i can feel your heart beat fast, and i think to my self........... i've found that " someone" at last....

LOVE....

"You Loves feel my heart....
Like a ocean,
The rainbow....
and all things beautiful "

"The most precious gift we can offer anyone is our attention.
 When mindfulness embraces those we love,
 they will bloom like flowers."

"He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you."

'I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you simply, without problems or pride: I love you in this way because I do not know any other way of loving but this, in which there is no I or you, so intimate that your hand upon my chest is my hand, so intimate that when I fall asleep your eyes close."

"It’s often just enough to be with someone. I don’t need to touch them. Not even talk. A feeling passes between you both. You’re not alone."

FAITH....

“God will not look you over for medals, degrees or diplomas but for scars.”

“Some people don't understand the promises they're making when they make them," I said.

"Right, of course. But you keep the promise anyway. That's what love is. Love is keeping the promise anyway.”

“And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” 

LIFE....

"What counts in life...
is not the mere fact that we have lived.
it is that difference we have made to the lives of other
that will determine, the signification of the we lead."

"Its of practical value to learn to like your self
since you must spend to much time with your self
you might as well as get some satisfaction
out of the relationship "

"It's really hard to Hate someone
for being different
when you're too busy
laughing together"

"You don't need anybody to tell you
who are or what u are,
you are what you are "

"Ambition an overmastering Desire to be verified by enemise
while living & made ridiculous by friends when dead"

INSPIRATION LIFE.....

"Good things come to those
who wait greater things come to
those who get off their ass and do
anything to make to happen"

"Accept responsibility for your life
know that it is you who will get you
want to do, no one else "

"Life is short, live it.
Love is rare Grab it.
Anger is bad, dump it.
Fear is awful, face it.
Memories are sweet, cherish it "

"The pain you feel today is the strength
you feel tomorrow
for every challenge encountered
there is opportunities for Growth  "

RELATIONSHIP

'Relationship never die a natural death...
They are always murdered by--
EGO, ATTITUDE, MISUNDERSTANDING & IGNORANCE"   

IT'S ME.....

"It's me in me,
My power, my source of power,
what soever you feel around me ,
is really within me.....
 i do not any thing except my self,
but it is enough, i am fulfilled, now,
i do desire anything, i have become disireles" 

SUCCESS:---

Golden words of success see the clock
only when you dont have work,
dont see clock when u r working,
clock is a lock for success